Flirting is one of my absolute favorite

relational skills to teach. 

 

I love teaching flirting because….

 

1. It’s fun. 

2. It’s EFFECTIVE. 

 

Flirting is a universal code language to create,

express, explore, and gauge attraction. 

 

It’s a full system dialogue - signaled as much through

body language, vocal tonality, facial expression and timing,

as by verbal language.

 

It is the social technology that unlocks romantic potential…

 

…that revs up the engine and invites a dynamic from

platonic friendliness into romantic possibility.

 

It’s the match that lights the spark of chemistry. 

 

And the force that breathes life into the growing fire.

 

So, first, let’s address the fun factor

and why it’s important: 

 

What makes people want to be around you, date you,

be in a relationship with you?

 

How they FEEL around you. 

 

(Namely, how they feel about THEMSELVES around you,

but we get into that inside the program.)

 

And what is the critical variable that influences how they feel around you, if they enjoy being in your presence, and whether

or not they’re motivated to want to spend time with you more?

 

Whether or not YOU are having a good time -

i.e., your enjoyment of being in your own presence. 

 

Flirting is fun. Flirting is a form of play, with a function. 

 

Think of it like this:

have you ever gone out with someone who was

clearly not having a good time?  Who was jaded about dating?

Who was approaching the interaction more like a transactional job interview and less like a playful, intriguing opportunity

to connect with each other and make memories?

 

Mhmmmm. 

 

You “just didn’t feel a spark.” “There wasn’t any sexual tension.” 

 

Here’s the thing: a spark isn’t just something you have

with someone or you don’t. 

 

A spark is something you create together.

 

Sexual tension is created through indulgence and savvy.

 

In Flirt Harder, I teach you how. 

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And now, let’s address the EFFICACY factor: 

 

Once you master flirting, the floodgates of attraction in

your love life fling open. 

 

I’ve seen it happen with clients time and time again. It’s wonderful.

 

Knowing how to flirt is the difference between someone seeing you “just as a friend,” and seeing you as a romantic prospect. 

 

It’s the difference between “never meeting anyone you vibe with,” and the joyful agency and opportunity that comes with knowing how to create a vibe with anyone.

 

It’s the difference between feeling you and your partner are just roommates, and feeling pulsing electricity between you every day. Innuendo fully intended. 

 

It’s the difference between throwing figurative spaghetti against the wall in your love life, and intentionally, expertly cooking a gourmet meal. 

 

Shall I go on?

K, just one more:

 

It’s the difference between participating in a jaded, stale, discouraged dating culture...and depleting your energy complaining about it with the masses…

 

…and participating in creating something better - 

 for yourself, your dates, and the culture at large…

 

…the utter advantage of being refreshing af,

of belonging to a movement to reignite the sparkle

in modern dating, one interaction at a time. 

 

If I could only teach one skill to spread a fire

of romance across the globe, it would be flirting. 

 

If I could wave my magic wand and change just one thing

about the modern lovescape, I'd turn the volume tf up

on everyone’s ENJOYMENT. 

 

We enjoy ourselves when our tactics are effective and render results and flow.

 

Our tactics are effective when we’re enjoying ourselves. 

 

And so, with great joy, via Flirt Harder,

I invite into a whole new world of romantic possibility. 

 

I can’t wait to hear what you create. 

 

See you in there.

 

Xx, 

Cora